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Being an Excellent Christian Wife (Tamil)
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Scriptures Referenced
Proverbs 31:10-31 Amplified Bible (AMP)
10 An excellent woman [one who is spiritual, capable, intelligent, and virtuous], who is he who can find her? Her value is more precious than jewels and her worth is far above rubies or pearls. 11 The heart of her husband trusts in her [with secure confidence], And he will have no lack of gain. 12 She comforts, encourages, and does him only good and not evil All the days of her life. 13 She looks for wool and flax And works with willing hands in delight. 15 She rises also while it is still night And gives food to her household And assigns tasks to her maids. 17 She equips herself with strength [spiritual, mental, and physical fitness for her God-given task] And makes her arms strong. 18 She sees that her gain is good; Her lamp does not go out, but it burns continually through the night [she is prepared for whatever lies ahead]. 19 She stretches out her hands to the distaff, And her hands hold the spindle [as she spins wool into thread for clothing]. 20 She opens and extends her hand to the poor, And she reaches out her filled hands to the needy. . 23 Her husband is known in the [city’s] gates, When he sits among the elders of the land. 25 Strength and dignity are her clothing and her position is strong and secure; And she smiles at the future [knowing that she and her family are prepared]. 26 She opens her mouth in [skillful and godly] wisdom, And the teaching of kindness is on her tongue [giving counsel and instruction]. 27 She looks well to how things go in her household, And does not eat the bread of idleness. 28 Her children rise up and call her blessed (happy, prosperous, to be admired); Her husband also, and he praises her, saying, 30 Charm and grace are deceptive, and [superficial] beauty is vain, But a woman who fears the Lord
[reverently worshiping, obeying, serving, and trusting Him with awe-filled respect],
she shall be praised. 31 Give her of the product of her hands, And let her own works praise her in the gates [of the city].
James 1:22 New King James Version (NKJV)
22 But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.
James 4:6 New Revised Standard Version Catholic Edition (NRSVCE) 6But he gives all the more grace; therefore it says,
“God opposes the proud,
but gives grace to the humble.”
2 Corinthians 13:5 Amplified Bible (AMP)
5 Examine and test and evaluate your own selves to see whether you are holding to your faith
and showing the proper fruits of it. Test and prove yourselves
Do you not yourselves realize and know [thoroughly by an ever-increasing experience]
that Jesus Christ is in you—unless you are [counterfeits] disapproved on trial and rejected?
Galatians 6:3 New King James Version (NKJV)
3 For if anyone thinks himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceives himself.
1 Corinthians 8:2 Easy-to-Read Version (ERV)
2 Those who think they know something do not yet know anything as they should.
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Luke 10:26-28 New Revised Standard Version Catholic Edition (NRSVCE)
26 He said to him, “What is written in the law? What do you read there?”
27 He answered, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul,
and with all your strength, and with all your mind; and your neighbor as yourself.”
28 And he said to him, “You have given the right answer; do this, and you will live.” -
Being an Excellent Christian Wife
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Scriptures Referenced
Proverbs 31:10-31 Amplified Bible (AMP)
10 An excellent woman [one who is spiritual, capable, intelligent, and virtuous], who is he who can find her? Her value is more precious than jewels and her worth is far above rubies or pearls. 11 The heart of her husband trusts in her [with secure confidence], And he will have no lack of gain. 12 She comforts, encourages, and does him only good and not evil All the days of her life. 13 She looks for wool and flax And works with willing hands in delight. 15 She rises also while it is still night And gives food to her household And assigns tasks to her maids. 17 She equips herself with strength [spiritual, mental, and physical fitness for her God-given task] And makes her arms strong. 18 She sees that her gain is good; Her lamp does not go out, but it burns continually through the night [she is prepared for whatever lies ahead]. 19 She stretches out her hands to the distaff, And her hands hold the spindle [as she spins wool into thread for clothing]. 20 She opens and extends her hand to the poor, And she reaches out her filled hands to the needy. . 23 Her husband is known in the [city’s] gates, When he sits among the elders of the land. 25 Strength and dignity are her clothing and her position is strong and secure; And she smiles at the future [knowing that she and her family are prepared]. 26 She opens her mouth in [skillful and godly] wisdom, And the teaching of kindness is on her tongue [giving counsel and instruction]. 27 She looks well to how things go in her household, And does not eat the bread of idleness. 28 Her children rise up and call her blessed (happy, prosperous, to be admired); Her husband also, and he praises her, saying, 30 Charm and grace are deceptive, and [superficial] beauty is vain, But a woman who fears the Lord
[reverently worshiping, obeying, serving, and trusting Him with awe-filled respect],
she shall be praised. 31 Give her of the product of her hands, And let her own works praise her in the gates [of the city].
James 1:22 New King James Version (NKJV)
22 But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.
James 4:6 New Revised Standard Version Catholic Edition (NRSVCE) 6
But he gives all the more grace; therefore it says,
“God opposes the proud,
but gives grace to the humble.”
2 Corinthians 13:5 Amplified Bible (AMP)
5 Examine and test and evaluate your own selves to see whether you are holding to your faith
and showing the proper fruits of it. Test and prove yourselves
Do you not yourselves realize and know [thoroughly by an ever-increasing experience]
that Jesus Christ is in you—unless you are [counterfeits] disapproved on trial and rejected?
Galatians 6:3 New King James Version (NKJV)
3 For if anyone thinks himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceives himself.
1 Corinthians 8:2 Easy-to-Read Version (ERV)
2 Those who think they know something do not yet know anything as they should.
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Luke 10:26-28 New Revised Standard Version Catholic Edition (NRSVCE)
26 He said to him, “What is written in the law? What do you read there?”
27 He answered, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul,
and with all your strength, and with all your mind; and your neighbor as yourself.”
28 And he said to him, “You have given the right answer; do this, and you will live.”
AI-generated transcript below — please excuse any errors
00:00 Praise Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Brothers and sisters, today the power of Christ Daily 26th of October, 2015 Being an excellent Christian wife. Being an excellent Christian wife. Brothers and sisters, Brothers and sisters must understand husbands
and wives.00:16 Today we’re dealing with husbands and wives. First of all, it is always Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Everything is under his feet.
00:27 He is the one who suffered for us. He is the one who died for us. He is the one who rose again.
00:27 He is the one who came out of Father God. Because he is the word of God. He came out, begotten out of Father God, took the form of a man so that he can be tempted in every which way, but did not sin and paid the ultimate price of blood sacrifice.
00:51 And we now with his blood, believing in Him. Believing Our faith is in Jesus Christ. Our faith is in the faith of Jesus Christ.
00:55 Our faith is in the faith of what Jesus Christ did. And the power of Jesus Christ. Power of Christ.
00:55 Our faith is in that that sets us to have a great life. Brothers and sisters. It is eternal life while on earth.
01:16 Also peaceful, righteousness, peace and joy. That life that can only come from Jesus Christ. We always must remember that when you get up in the morning, think of Jesus Christ and also think of the people you care for.
01:29 People your brothers and sisters in Christ. But first think of Jesus Christ. This is Jesus Christ, nothing else.
01:36 Thank Jesus Christ, the husband of your soul. Now today the topic here we are using. I’m using Proverbs 31 now.
01:44 Proverbs 31. Of course, anything in the Old Testament God has put down is good. But human beings couldn’t do it.
01:54 The people who fear God the time fear God, love God. Now we come in Christ because we have no more sin. The sin has washed out.
02:03 We don’t fear God. We love God because He is our Father. Jesus Christ is the brother for us and he is the husband of my soul.
02:12 And he. He is willing to call us brothers. He is not ashamed to call us brothers.
02:17 He says. And sisters, I have told you all before, you are in a woman’s body. But your spirit being is a spirit of Father God.
02:25 And you are only in a woman’s body. And your husband is a male’s body. That’s all.
02:32 And the body will go back to dust. Now, whenever we read these, we must read with godly wisdom. Whenever we read the Old Testament, we know we can do it in the name of Jesus Christ.
02:43 We can do it by the power of Christ. We cannot do it by ourselves. We can do it by the power of Christ.
02:48 But Whenever we read whatever God has told us the good things in Proverbs and all, it must have godly wisdom. Now, for instance, the proverbs may say, in Proverbs 31, a godly wife buys land and makes sure that the land is of good value and all that
before she accepts it or not. Then some woman will say, I’m a byland, I’m a byline.02:50 God has told me by land. Not true, not true. That’s why it’s worldly wisdom that goes on like.
03:20 It’s like a robot. You know, some people think like robots. Oh, gosh.
03:24 Gosh. It goes. It, yeah.
03:26 That written word of God is in what context? You might understand the context. So I mean, everybody, every woman will go and buy land here, and every wife of a Christian will go buy land and then trade in land and then plant things in the land.
Suppose you are living in a flat.03:40 Suppose you are living in an apartment. And suppose you are struggling through some finances. That is why godly wisdom is necessary.
03:51 But if God tells you to do something, first of all, in the wife’s case, her submission to the husband is as a service to the Lord Jesus Christ of Nazareth, not any Lord. Lord, Lord, Praise the Lord. Praise the Lord.
04:07 I stopped doing that decades ago because I also used to say, praise the Lord, Praise the Lord. Praise God, Praise God. And then I found that I’m actually not referring to Jesus Christ at all.
04:14 And then I found another scripture to say that whenever I declare his name, Jesus Christ declares my name to Father God. Can you imagine that? So I changed straight away to say, praise Jesus Christ. Praise Jesus Christ.
04:35 Praise Jesus Christ. Why? I know when I declare his name, he declares my name to Father God. If I say praise the Lord, Praise the Lord.
04:44 Praise God. Praise God. That’s not his name.
04:46 His name is not Lord. His name is Jesus Christ. The Lord is the Lord.
04:54 Praise the Lord. There are a whole lot of other religions that say, praise the Lord, Praise the Lord. But which Lord and which God, brothers and sisters, today, be myself.
05:02 Godly wisdom. Godly wisdom comes from wanting to love God and please him. Now, starting here, Proverbs 31:10.
05:11 An excellent woman who is spiritual capable. I’m reading Amplified. Spiritual capable, intelligent and virtuous.
05:19 Spiritual capable, intelligent, virtuous. Who is he who can find her? That means which man can get an excellent woman for a wife? Her value is more precious than jewels and her worth is far above rubies or pearls. Her worth is far above Ruby’s
birth.05:38 When we got spiritual, capable, intelligent, virtuous Oh, I didn’t get a degree. I’m a wife. So I’m now going to get a degree.
05:47 I’m going to get a master’s degree. I’m going to be. That’s worldly intelligence.
05:52 An intelligent woman. God is talking about a godly intelligence. Godly intelligence is first submit to Jesus Christ and then submit to your husband as you serve the Lord.
06:03 Test godly intelligence. Godly intelligence is knowing the scriptures. Worldly intelligence is just information that the world has told us.
06:13 Yeah, I got qualifications. What happened to the collocations? The devil still watched me. Isn’t it? Why the qualifications I had cannot solve.
06:21 It was very good in the world can shine in the world. But Satan came to steal, kill and destroy. So godly wisdom now the intelligent intelligence.
06:30 I’m not. Relax, sister. This is regarding godly intelligence.
06:35 You must learn and seek the word of God. So who is this woman who’s far worth above rubies and pearls, spiritual, capable, intelligent. I am not capable.
06:46 Then you are saying something that is Antichrist. Because why Jesus Christ? If you know the word Jesus Christ has said in his Word. The word of God says you can do all things through Christ.
06:59 Now you are now talking opposite to Christ. I am not capable. Spiritual, capable, intelligent, virtuous.
07:06 Virtuous is now righteous. Righteous. My righteousness come from Jesus Christ because I make mistakes.
07:15 So he covers me with his blood, washes me all my sins away. But what I want to do, I want to do right things like that. You also must want to do right things, brothers and sisters.
07:25 Next one. The heart of a husband trusts in her with secure confidence. And he will have no lack of gain.
07:33 He will not be poor. He will have more than enough. Now the heart of the husband trusts in her.
07:39 Why the heart of the husband can trust her in her? Because she has not done anything to make the husband distrust her. So if a woman is doing things that make the husband distrust her, then you are not a follower of Christ, sister. So we make so you
now I am talking to her.07:58 I believe you want to follow Christ. That’s why you are listening to this every morning. So otherwise you won’t be chucked in long ago and gone.
08:04 Because you can’t take the word of God. It will be poking you, it will be separating bone from marrow and it will be chastising you. But you’re still sitting and listening to this means you are wanting to be the kind of person, a soul and presented
chaste virgin to Christ.08:22 So therefore I’m grateful to God that you Are having this mindset to please Jesus Christ of Nazareth. You are wanting to please already means you are a disciple of Jesus Christ, Sister. So don’t get distressed about all this.
08:37 You are a disciple of Jesus Christ because you want this the heart of her husband. So now God is talking to you to tell you things what you must look out for. That’s all.
08:49 He’s not condemning you, Sister. He’s now telling you what to look out for. My child, you’re the wife to this man who’s a God fearing man.
08:58 Even he’s not a God fearing man. You have married him. You made a covenant.
09:02 You will do what is right. Because you are my child. Because you are my servant.
09:04 Because you are my saint. The saint. We are saints in Jesus Christ.
09:13 We are not saints of some organization or some religious grouping. God calls us saints because we have been sanctified by Jesus Christ, separated by Jesus Christ for salvation. So here he is telling you what to look out for.
09:28 You are my child, you are my disciple. You are the holy priest. You are an ambassador of Christ.
09:35 So Christ is telling you my soul, the soul that he owns, he’s got back in his hands. Look out for these things. So she comforts.
09:44 12. She comforts and encourages and does him only good and not evil. Does him only good and not evil.
09:50 Get the emails from the group from the graceoflife.com ask the moderators. They put your email because this is. I will now put this in the email today.
09:59 All the days of her life she only does him good. All the days of her life only does good. That means you look out, Sister.
10:06 I want to. In the name of Jesus Christ. God has commanded me to do only good all the days of my life and not evil.
10:16 Oh, all the days does him only good. You also now do only good for all. Not just because we are Christians now we are disciples.
10:24 We want to do only good for all. 13. She looks for wool and flax and works with willing hand in delight immediately.
10:32 Oh, wooling wool. This is winter. Relax.
10:37 Godly wisdom. This is simply an indication to say you’re willing to work with your hands in delight. Whatever your hand finds you delightfully want to do unto the Lord Jesus Christ.
10:50 15. She rises also while it is still night and gives food to a household and assigns tasks to her mates. But I don’t have a maid.
10:59 Sister is talking about assigning tasks. It could be your children even teaching your children what to do in the house. Training your children to do housework, whether it’s a boy or a girl.
11:11 Because you train them from young to be submissive, obedient and be a blessing to the family. So you give them household tasks. Household tasks.
11:22 Some wash the bathroom, some this. And give food to the household means you’re making sure everybody is provided for. Everybody ate properly.
11:29 And also good food, not just the junk food. Oh, I’ll do TV dinner. TV dinner, TV dinner.
11:36 You know, TV dinner. You just put it by and chuck the thing into the microwave. Microwave dinner.
11:40 Or here we go. Okay. We’ll always buy pizza.
11:42 We’ll always buy McDonald’s. They serve at. They deliver to the house these days.
11:47 No, sister, you better understand. All this junk food can harm us. It actually cannot.
11:53 No, it does harm us. Now in 17, I’m reading. She equips herself with strength.
11:59 This very. I have. Oh, I have no strength.
12:02 You equip yourself with strength. What strength? Spiritual, mental, physical fitness for her God given task. She equips herself spiritual, mental, physical fitness for a God given task.
12:15 Be a godly wife, excellent woman, excellent mother. And makes her arm strong. The arm doesn’t become strong until you make it quite clearly.
12:24 Jesus telling you so. You got to do things until you do. Oh, I’m strong.
12:27 So I must go to the gym now. Give me a gym membership. Husband, give me a gym membership.
12:31 All these are falsehood worldly nonsense. By doing work your arms will become strong. Brothers and sisters.
12:41 So God, she sees that again. It’s good. Her lamp does not go out, but it burns continually through the night.
12:48 She is prepared for whatever lies ahead. That means her lamp is there anything in the household. She gets up and does it not.
12:56 They call it sleepy stupor. Stupor may come from stupidity. La stupor like stupid gone and blur.
13:07 Sleep like that, cannot get up and do any issue going just continue blur and d. But of course, if you have worked so hard and you’re tired, you sleep well, sleep well. But if anything important, you are in Christ.
13:20 Somebody wakes you up, you end up doing Nowadays what? It’s a hand cell phone. Keep it at a distance from you. So anybody, any brother or sister to call you.
13:28 You quickly answer to see what happened. Because middle of the night, somebody calling. You mean some issue? Of course you got crank calls, I got crank calls.
13:36 Why? I mean the public, isn’t it so fellas want to irritate me. Oh, some devil put some thought in. Some people wake this fella up because he’s doing morning shift of giving God’s word out.
13:49 The devil puts her heart and call and put the heart of this fellow and call and the fellow accidentally call wrong number or call and talk nonsense. Because when I guided some people, they don’t like it. They’ll give crankours.
14:01 I accept it. I still love them. Get on with my life in Jesus Christ now.
14:08 So now keep the hand going on because why? Your brother and sister in Christ may need help and you’re willing to do it. She opens and extends her hands to the poor. She reaches out her filled hands to the needy.
14:20 Her husband is known in the gates when he sits among the elders. He has got good reputation. Why? Because you are a godly wife.
14:28 You are loving him, caring for him, loving the family, caring for the family in all things you are working so hard to take. Because you are treasuring the job God has given you. Your job is to nurture your children and care for your husband as a
wife.14:43 And God, that man has got good reputation. If you are doing nonsense, quarreling, screaming, shouting, everything going on, chaos in the house and. And then they see you all the time loitering outside somewhere or come anytime.
14:55 They visit you all the time on TV or something going on. What repetition will the man have? She opens her mouth in skillful and godly wisdom. To have skillful and godly wisdom, you must be reading the word of God and teaching of kindness is on her
tongue.15:10 Always talking about kindness does not eat the bread of idleness. It’s not lazy. Her children rise up and call her blessed because why happy, prosperous, to be admired.
15:21 The children admire her. Oh, my mother, you know, works so hard, you know, she cares for us and all the time with a joy in her face. The children wake up with that.
15:30 Her husband also praises her. Yeah, my wife, you know. Thank Jesus.
15:34 Without her I cannot do these things. Without her my family is finished. Thank Jesus.
15:39 Thank Jesus for this. Thank Jesus for my wife. Charm and grace are deceptive and superficial.
15:45 Beauty is vain. Charm and grace are all the time dressing up this way. Put on how I married Bonham and going out, put on her lazy slothful.
15:54 There are women now. Lazy slothful. Now don’t do anything.
15:57 House in a mess, kitchen in rubbish cells. Things are all plates full, no washing, some excuse being given. No, you get up and do find strength.
16:08 She equips herself with strength. But a woman who fears the Lord, fears the Lord, loves the Lord now reverently worshipping, obeying, serving and trusting him and all filled respect. Trusting him with all filled respect, brothers and sisters.
16:23 And let her own works praise her in the gates. Whatever you do, you are not waiting for praise, but whatever you are doing, it will be seen. God will make it seen.
16:31 Brothers and sisters, today, brother, you have to wash your wife with the word of God. Sister, you as a wife, you please focus on something with godly wisdom. Say I want to do.
16:41 I want to be the godly wife, Lord, because I service unto you. I want to please you, Lord Jesus. So I will do this.
16:48 And then step by step, things will happen for you. In Jesus name I pray, Amen.
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How to make your wife Love Submit and Respect you
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Scriptures Referenced
Ephesians 5:22-24 Amplified Bible (AMP)
22 Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as [a service] to the Lord.
23 For the husband is head of the wife, as Christ is head of the church, Himself being the Savior of the body.
24 But as the church is subject to Christ, so also wives should be subject to their husbands in everything
[respecting both their position as protector and their responsibility to God as head of the house].Titus 2:4-5 New Revised Standard Version Catholic Edition (NRSVCE)
4 so that they may encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children,
5 to be self-controlled, chaste, good managers of the household, kind,
being submissive to their husbands, so that the word of God may not be discredited.Ephesians 5:33 New King James Version (NKJV)
33 Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself,
and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
Ephesians 5:25-29 New King James Version (NKJV)
25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her,
26 that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word,
27 that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle
or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish.
28 So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself.
29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church.
James 1:22 New King James Version (NKJV)
22 But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.
James 4:6 New Revised Standard Version Catholic Edition (NRSVCE) 6But he gives all the more grace; therefore it says,
“God opposes the proud,
but gives grace to the humble.”
2 Corinthians 13:5 Amplified Bible (AMP)
5 Examine and test and evaluate your own selves to see whether you are holding to your faith
and showing the proper fruits of it. Test and prove yourselves
Do you not yourselves realize and know [thoroughly by an ever-increasing experience]
that Jesus Christ is in you—unless you are [counterfeits] disapproved on trial and rejected?
Galatians 6:3 New King James Version (NKJV)
3 For if anyone thinks himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceives himself.
1 Corinthians 8:2 Easy-to-Read Version (ERV)
2 Those who think they know something do not yet know anything as they should.
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Luke 10:26-28 New Revised Standard Version Catholic Edition (NRSVCE)
26 He said to him, “What is written in the law? What do you read there?”
27 He answered, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul,
and with all your strength, and with all your mind; and your neighbor as yourself.”
28 And he said to him, “You have given the right answer; do this, and you will live.”
AI-generated transcript below — please excuse any errors
00:00 Praise Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Brothers and sisters, today the power of Christ Daily 24 October 2015. A Saturday. How to make your wife love, submit and respect you.
00:14 Love, submit and respect you. I’m sure many men are interested in this because many husbands are interested in this, because many wives don’t respect them. Many wives don’t submit to them.
00:24 Many wives don’t love them. Even so, there are reasons for this and how to do this. Christ has written it down.
00:32 You see, everything in the Bible is settled, brothers and sisters. There’s nothing undone here. When God created, there’s like some manufacturer creates a car, he puts a car manual.
00:43 The Bible is a manual for living, for our safety, for our life, good life. Now, before that, let’s see what God is saying. Jesus Christ is saying regarding wives, first wives.
00:54 You all listen to this because the world has confused many of you by feminism. How to submit? I cannot submit. So a person, a girl who married with love, Love for the husband, love for the husband, loving the wife.
01:08 They married together. Like what happened to me, my wife. We married, but eventually, step by step, over the years, things went so wrong because the devil came to steal, kill and destroy.
01:19 And our own hearts are treacherously wicked. And we let our heart take control. And one by one, the devil stole.
01:26 Using that tempts us, tempts our heart. We follow our heart and we mess up. And sometimes the women think, how to submit, how to submit.
01:34 Cannot submit. In the name of Jesus Christ. You can submit.
01:38 That’s not the issue here. The issue here is you have to renew in the spirit of your mind. You are renewed in the spirit of mind that this is Jesus Christ, what he says.
01:48 Ephesians 5, 22, 24. Ephesians 5, 22,. 24.
01:53 I’m reading from the amplified version. Wives, be subject to your own husbands as a service to the Lord. As a service to the Lord.
02:04 So you begin to meditate on this. You are serving the Lord by submitting to your husband. But of course you are not going to do sin if the husband tells you to do wrong things, keep on getting money from you to buy booze and getting drunk or going
to the karaoke or whatever you don’t give, you cannot give because it is not a service to the Lord.02:23 If the husband tells you to lie and cheat and all you cannot do because it’s not a service of the Lord. In fact, you are getting the Lord angry, actually angry, because you are willfully sinning. Now, if your husband wants you to fill up a bank
form, frauding the details and the form so you can get a big loan or whatever.02:41 Don’t do it. Don’t do wrong. Your husband asks you to do wrong.
02:44 Cannot. That is not from God, that is from the devil. So you submit to your husband as a service to the Lord.
02:52 Now if you begin to meditate on this word. I submit to my husband as a service to the Lord. Even though there’s no love in the marriage for some reason or other, even though you can’t unable to respect the then respect the husband, you begin to
first submit to the husband as a service to the Lord.03:10 As you begin to have Whenever you’re doing something, you’re serving the Lord, you’re serving the Lord, you begin to meditate on the scripture step by step. The scripture, the word of God will change you and you will happen for the husband. 4:23 for
the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is head of the church himself, being the saviour of the body.03:29 Now for the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is head of the church himself, being the Savior of the body. So your body, your husband is providing for it, nurturing for it and all. Of course, I’m not dealing with those of you who have
unbelieving husbands, sinful husbands like I was.03:47 We’re not talking about that. We’re talking about follower of Christ married in the Lord. The husband that is not married in the Lord.
03:56 If he’s trying to take care of you, he’s not doing all this adultery and all this nonsense that I did, then you will of course keep the marriage. Jesus says, if you have unbelieving husband, keep the marriage. Because the unbelieving husband has
been sanctified, separated for salvation and your children also separated for salvation.04:17 So don’t worry about it. Your children will be sanctified, so you and your household will be saved. That’s his promise.
04:22 If you believe in Jesus Christ and you believe in him to save the household. Okay, so there’s another topic I’ve talked about earlier. We can come back another time.
04:31 24 but as a church is subject to Christ, you subject yourself to your husband as a church is subject to Christ also. Also wives should be subject to their husbands in everything, respecting both their position as protector and their responsibility
to God as head of the house. They have a responsibility.04:50 In fact, the responsibility on the husbands are so many times, many things far, far greater than that of the wife, your wife. The wife is only supposed to submit to the husband, submit the husband and that’s it. So now then God will do something.
05:05 Jesus does something. I’ve given an example before when we have come to the Lord, my wife has come to the Lord and my children are growing up and one day I’m working. We are so tied up, the whole family is so busy.
05:17 I was so busy in ministry and then they. So one day I got up on Saturday and God says, oh no, I think got up Tuesday or Wednesday and God said Saturday to take them to Melaka Club. There’s a little bit of chalet there to stay there and a holiday for
two days or whatever.05:37 So I got up and called all of them and said, Jesus is telling me to do this, so we’ll go this weekend. And at that time I can see my wife and my elder girls having eye contact and slight smile. Then finally when I found out, it seems that they told
me that they want a break.05:54 My wife told me the children need a break and all. And I didn’t bother. But what happened? Because she submitted herself and she looked unto Christ for the solution.
06:03 Christ then puts into the husband a God fearing man. A God fearing man. It will happen.
06:08 Otherwise you just still go to your husband of your soul and he’ll do something. Titus 2:4 5. So that they may encourage the young women.
06:16 Now older women encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be self controlled, chaste. This I am reading from Catholic edition. Chaste.
06:26 Good managers of the household kind, being submissive to their husbands so that the word of God may not be discredited. Some versions will say, blasphemed, tarnished, blackened. If you don’t do this, wives, sisters in Christ, I’m telling you, you
are tarnishing the blackening the name of God.06:46 You’re blackening the word of God, which is Jesus Christ. So what? Love your husband. Self control, everything chaste.
06:54 Chase me. You’re holy. Your conduct is changed.
06:56 Your speech is chaste. Holy speech, good speech. Good managers of the household.
07:03 Many women fail in this reason is maybe their mothers didn’t teach them or they were spoiled in the house or whatever, pampered, you know. And so they cannot be good managers. But you can learn.
07:13 This is not the issue. You can learn. But sometimes after many years, these women, older women, I still see some of them real bad managers of the household.
07:20 Why? And they get into debt. They cannot manage their house within the budget given and they cannot do a full thing. They think they’re doing so much.
07:29 And then you go and see, a godly wife will be doing tenfolds More than these women. And you find that they are doing this bad manger because sometimes they are lazy. So there is a spiritual problem here.
07:41 They are against Christ. If you are lazy and all that you are against Christ. We have to endure, overcome, kind, submissive to their own husbands, so that the Word of God is not tarnished and blackened.
07:54 Ephesians 5:33. Nevertheless, let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself. And let the wife see that she respects her husband.
08:04 Many wives I see don’t respect the husband in public, you know, in front of me, as I have seen. If it’s the congregation member, I have to correct them. You know this is nonsense.
08:13 Respect your husband. God says so. Brothers and sisters, now the question today is because now only eight minutes, you see, Now I got another seven minutes or so to do this.
08:23 Now, brothers and sisters, how to make your brothers, how to make your wife love, submit and respect you? Because God said the wife must respect. Some wives cannot respect because the husbands also doing rubbish as so called Christian husband. But
they’re doing rubbish.08:38 Maybe they don’t know this word. Maybe they cannot overcome. Cannot overcome is a nonsense thing.
08:43 I’ve seen theological teaching, you know, you must do this, you must do that, you must do the big writing, essay after essay. But nobody tells you how you want to do this. How you going to do this is simple.
08:54 Look at the Word of God. Meditate on the Word of God as if you are seeing the Word of God in the mirror. And step by step the Word of God will change you.
09:02 Because you want to submit to Christ. If you think you know something, if you know something, you do not know anything as yet. You ought to know.
09:04 If you think you are something when you are nothing, you are deceiving yourself. Humble yourself, brothers. This award of God now how now let’s read Ephesians 5:25.
09:19 Yes, the secret is here. Ephesians 5:25. So, wives, I’m sure you’re also interested how he’s going to do this to you, right? Husbands, love your wives.
09:29 Just as Christ also loved the church and gave himself for her, that he might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the Word, that he might present her to himself, a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but
that she should be holy and without blemish. Without blemish means blameless. Includes blameless.09:53 So husbands ought to love. 28. So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies.
10:00 He loves his wife. He who Loves his wife, loves himself. 29.
10:05 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church. Now this whole thing, Jesus says what he did for the church, right? Husband, love your wife. Just as Christ also loved the church and gave himself
up.10:22 First rule is give yourself up for her. Not your friends come first. Your work comes first.
10:29 Everything else in the world, your mother, your mother comes first. Your father comes first. Your grandfather comes first.
10:35 Your grandmother comes first. No, gave himself over. She comes first.
10:39 Full stop. She comes first. Your wife comes first.
10:42 Because for Jesus, he gave himself up for the Church. Who’s the church? The body of Christ. Who’s the body of Christ? We are the body of Christ.
10:51 The followers of Christ are the body of Christ. 2 that he might sanctify and cleanse us. Now we remember last word, just as the Lord does the church.
11:00 So we just do as the Lord does for the church, we do for our wives, and the thing will be fantastic marriage. And I did this because I didn’t really know very much of this scripture. But I knew I had to teach my wife certain things.
11:16 I will first give myself. So my wife wants me or needs me back in the house. I take my body and come back finished.
11:22 Because he gave himself for her. I will give myself for my wife first. That’s the order.
11:28 That’s the command. That is my sanctify and cleanse her. So I have to sanctify, separate my wife.
11:34 He separated. Jesus Christ separated the church for himself. I must separate my wife for myself.
11:40 You must separate your wife for yourself and cleanse her. How to cleanse her? With the washing of water by the Word. There is enough evidence now.
11:48 When good words are spoken to water, water suddenly frozen, they make into crystals. They form crystals, beautiful crystals, bad words, hard rock music, heavy rock and all this rubbish going on. The water crystals become very dark and dirty and
misshaped no shape and becomes poison.12:06 It is the fact that 90% of our brains is water. So when it says renewing in the spirit of your mind. Now the information or the fact in the mind, in the memory, in the brain is in the spirit plane.
12:20 It’s not physical. You can’t hold it, you cannot taste it. It’s in the spiritual plane, the memory, the thoughts, the words, the facts, the information.
12:31 So 90% water. So washing of the water, washing of water. So God.
12:37 This also could mean washing. It also means for me, it gets settled. When you begin to speak the good words of God into her.
12:45 It’s cleansing the water first water in the mind is cleansing and the brain 10% only receives the Word. And spiritually, the words are now gone and stuck inside there, embedded there. The words of God are there and the mind.
12:59 Now memory inside the water is all words of God now. Washing of the water by the word. That means you have to teach your wife words of God.
13:07 Teach her when she’s wrong the word of God, not teach her. I don’t like this. I don’t like that.
13:11 I’m not happy with nonsense. What is Jesus saying? What is the word of God saying? You have to use the word of God now. He might present her to himself.
13:21 So if you don’t use the word of God, it’s not going to work. If you don’t teach her the word of God, it’s not going to work. But if you have a log in your own eye and you see the fault, the speck in your wife’s eye and you try to tell her it’s not
going to work, you first take the log out of oi.13:36 You change, wash your water for yourself with the Word and the word of God and you change as you change and you begin to correct her and teach her the marriage. Fantastic. I’m telling you, it has happened to me and my family and my wife and me.
13:51 It is fantastic marriage. Never believed it could be. It couldn’t.
13:54 It’s even far more, far, far, far more fantastic, beautiful, wonderful than when I first married her. When we were first married, yes, we loved each other very much. But this is something else, so spiritual, so different.
14:10 I cannot explain brother, but you go and do this. Brother. Sister, you go and try this now.
14:15 He might present to himself a glorious church not without spot of wrinkles. So you don’t want your wife to have false. You don’t want your wife, her conduct to be spotless, without wrinkle, without nonsense, her conduct, her spirit, her words, her
spoken words, how she countenance, how her face changes or whatever.14:34 She is not putting sour face when you come back from work. No sour face there. It’s a loving face and holy and without blemish.
14:42 Without blemish, without spot and without. Oh, without blemish. Without blameless.
14:48 But her conduct is holy and without blame. No blame. Brothers, if your wife is having a lot of blame to her that you God always holds the husband accountable.
14:58 First you, you, you. I, I, I. Brother and sister, this is a fantastic thing. Please follow Ephesians 5:25, 29 and begin to wash of washing of the water by the Word.
15:11 But first humble yourself. Read the Word. You must know the Word of God first, brother.
15:16 If you don’t know the Word of God first, how are you going to use which word? Which appropriate word of God for that particular issue? To washing of the water by the Word over your wife, as Christ has done over the church, just as the Lord does the
church. We must do. And I have done this by God’s mercy.15:35 I still do this whenever she sit with her or talk to her. It’s all ongoing, day and night. Whenever it happens casually is stopped.
15:45 Because now both of us are older than the Lord, we know to humble more. Grace. Grace comes all that.
15:53 Brothers and sisters, this is how love, submit and respect. She will love and submit to you and respect you, because there are things in you to love, submit and respect. Because Jesus will do it in her for you and for her, for the whole family.
15:53 Brothers and sisters, it’s a wonderful day. Please go get the Scriptures from the moderators and do this in the name of Jesus Christ so theologians cannot settle this. You have to take the Word of God and begin to in the name of Jesus Christ, I
command my heart and mind to obey Ephesians 5:25, 29 to teach my wife to First I take up my lock from my own eyes.16:32 Before I correct anybody, I see whether there is a big lock in my eye. Brothers and sisters, do this and you will see your life change. Sisters, do what God told you to do.
16:41 In the name of Jesus Christ. Your life will change. Amen.
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How to make your wife Love Submit and Respect you (Tamil)
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Scriptures Referenced
Ephesians 5:22-24 Amplified Bible (AMP)
22 Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as [a service] to the Lord.
23 For the husband is head of the wife, as Christ is head of the church, Himself being the Savior of the body.
24 But as the church is subject to Christ, so also wives should be subject to their husbands in everything
[respecting both their position as protector and their responsibility to God as head of the house].Titus 2:4-5 New Revised Standard Version Catholic Edition (NRSVCE)
4 so that they may encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children,
5 to be self-controlled, chaste, good managers of the household, kind,
being submissive to their husbands, so that the word of God may not be discredited.Ephesians 5:33 New King James Version (NKJV)
33 Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself,
and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
Ephesians 5:25-29 New King James Version (NKJV)
25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her,
26 that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word,
27 that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle
or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish.
28 So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself.
29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church.
James 1:22 New King James Version (NKJV)
22 But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.
James 4:6 New Revised Standard Version Catholic Edition (NRSVCE) 6But he gives all the more grace; therefore it says,
“God opposes the proud,
but gives grace to the humble.”
2 Corinthians 13:5 Amplified Bible (AMP)
5 Examine and test and evaluate your own selves to see whether you are holding to your faith
and showing the proper fruits of it. Test and prove yourselves
Do you not yourselves realize and know [thoroughly by an ever-increasing experience]
that Jesus Christ is in you—unless you are [counterfeits] disapproved on trial and rejected?
Galatians 6:3 New King James Version (NKJV)
3 For if anyone thinks himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceives himself.
1 Corinthians 8:2 Easy-to-Read Version (ERV)
2 Those who think they know something do not yet know anything as they should.
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Luke 10:26-28 New Revised Standard Version Catholic Edition (NRSVCE)
26 He said to him, “What is written in the law? What do you read there?”
27 He answered, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul,
and with all your strength, and with all your mind; and your neighbor as yourself.”
28 And he said to him, “You have given the right answer; do this, and you will live.”
